We are going to discuss about a huge Imprecation for our society that is"OLD AGE HOMES".. Why old age homes?
➤ What is OLD AGE ???
The general definition of old age is the person with faded hairs, wrinkled skin, old at the time of retirement etc.. But actually a person is completely old when he /she can't take care of her/himself for their own day today activities which means they are dependent on their close family person that is OLD AGE..
➤ Caution for all of us:-One day we are also going to be old.. So be prepared for that..
➤ What is OLD AGE HOMES??
In earlier times the elders were highly respected in every household. They were consulted on everything and were considered as God's blessings in the house.
But with the changing times, there have been many social changes in India. Women have also started going out. They do not have time for the elderly in the house.
Here, I'm not saying to all but according to some people the elders are useless.Elders feel very bad in this way and then old age homes are built so that they can go there and live their lives freely and they are not seen with hatred.. Is this our humanity??
➤ Why OLD AGE HOMES??
1. Children are working away from home
Most children reside outside India or in another city for work purpose and the ageing parents are left, all alone with no one is to look after them. A retirement home offers the opportunity to live as a community giving the feeling of an extended family.
2. Ego Clash
The ego clash between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law causes too much stress in the house and the situation comes at such the worst that they can not live...
3. Lack of Patience
New generation is becoming more materialistic and their attitude towards parents is changing. They seem to have lost their patience.
4. An Interference
Sometimes grown-ups fail to realize their duty and are so much engrossed in their personal lives that they feel it a burden to keep the parents with them. They feel it as an interference in their personal lives and eventually tell their parents that they can not keep them.
➤ Why Elders are important in our life and what should be our duties??
Just think about our childhood days.. Our parents always gave us the right direction for the betterment of our life and they did all the things for our happiness by keeping out their own desires.
If we think, why are they doing all this?Justbecause by thinking that their son or daughter will take care of him /her at old age, this must be the only reason even if this is not openly told by our parents.
Today's life style is not allowing to think about this. When they are in need of our support in their old age, we drop their hands and admit in the old age home.. This is really unfair..
Our duty towards old age person are to respect them without any kind of selfish reasons and engage them in our life socially. What ever you are today is because of them only..
➤ What old age people should also understand ?
The time has changed, that's why the old age people should also change with the time living in a house in a village is all disappeared..It's not good asking your children to come and visit you very often who is in a far city or even abroad..
Now both the men and women are supposed to go for a job in this present situation to lead a decent life in the society.. So if there is a situation where you have to stay in your son or daughter's home in a city, just go and adjust to the situation..
➤ What I think, to solve this??
•There will be some solutions if some of these are changed like teaching kids to respect elders, making them understand the value of relationship, kindness, educating children that it is not the only responsibility for the male child to take care of the parents and also a female child, make them understand relationship gives more happiness than ego and money..
• Allow kids to visit their grandparents and relatives place regularly and also Educating a child saying that taking care of parents and in-laws are equally important to making money for the family needs.
➤ Yes, of course taking care of our old age parents are hard, they give us some trouble, so irritating sometimes but it's our responsibility. They are not doing all this knowingly, we will only understand only when we are in that age. Don't forget we are also going to face such situations. So, be patient and talk to them at least the time when you have a cup of coffee.. So, this Problem is not something which we cannot solve it needs a change in our mindset.
Let each one of us make a change to stop this most cruel happening..
Below the video is the inspiration to write this.. Thank you for reading this long article fully with patience and love.. Thank you to the author of this video...
Please share your experiences also in the comment section below.. And must watch this video.. Your eyes will definitely filled with tears...😭
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Agree, this one is also increase day by day, as people wants to live their lives freely after marriage. But on the other hand they forget about their grand parents. Nice one Riya ♥️
💯 true. As we all have old aged group people in our lives whether they are grandparents, or parents or in surroundings. I just always noticed that they advices us to do kind work and never hurt anyone. They have a great experience of life. Even I missed my dadaji😔 a lot. So guys please unki "seva" kro like they did when you are just a kid. Protect them don't leave them alone✌️ Few lines- जब हम बूढ़े होंगे, हाथ- पैर👐🦶 जुड़े होंगे, दवाइयों के पुड्ढेे होंगे पैसे बर्बाद करेंगे, जवानी याद krenge-2........
I'm really glad to see your heart touching words, Thanks a lot for reading.. Yes our parents or grandparents always show the right path to us, We should respect them and never let them go:-):-)
This blog makes me so emotional I dont know what should I write. but dont left you parents. God is not be present everytime thats why god made parents & yes thank you for covering this topic.
Thanks to you for visiting here and spent your precious time to read this.. Yes the another form of God is only our Parents, we should respect them❤️🎗️🤗
Very well said..🙏🏻🙏🏻I just can't understand what is the need of this type of homes in the society...if we need them in our childhood then why we can't give some time nd love to them in their old age.They just need our support and care..I completely supports u in this..😘
Thanks a ton Paridhi❤️!! You are absolutely right If they can take care of us then why we aren't? In their old age.. Afterall one day we'll also become the same.. Thanks for coming🙏😊😘
yes,we should respect our parents but sometimes you have to keep them in old age home because of situation.And there is a need to develop good old age home in our country.
Yes, you can do that but only if your parents want to go there for any reason, and you should connect with them always, when they need you should always go to meet them.. When they want to come back to home u should always go and bring them.. And, Yes the development also a big thing.... Thanks!!
This Article really touched my soul.. Whatever you wrote is really really appreciable and conveyable for this youth❤. I was like lost in reading and got emotional ❤❤ Very nicely written😊 Thank you for this😊😊
Riya thanks for your 💓 touching story it's really a big problem of modern culture thanks for raising this issue it will do some good if one someone inspired by your story it will be a big change
- As the owner of a renowned Assisted Living Residence in Gurgaon, I can say that there are two important reasons. Firstly, aged parents themselves often choose to shift to such old age homes in search of companionship, freedom from household chores, responsibilities of children, pursuing a hobby and more. In such cases, assisted living homes are their first choice. Secondly, often terminal illness in aged parents compel their children to send them to old age homes, because these homes have in-house team of doctors, nurses, caregivers and emergency-handlers to take care of senior citizens which children are unable to provide. At assisted living homes, senior citizens get better care and medical assistance than home, which is especially necessary for those with dementia, geriatric problems or post-operative patients. That way, their children remain stress-free too. Aurum, senior and assisted living homes in Gurgaon, Delhi NCR is a leading old age home in India. Its 36,000 sq ft living area is designed as a cozy living space that inspires home-like feelings. At Aurum, a senior’s physical and mental health is prioritized, and that seniors live a happy, healthy and dignified life is looked after To view more visit: https://www.aurumliving.com/
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Never left those hands ❤️🥺
ReplyDeleteEverything has end except FAMILY ❤️🖤
Thank you so much Keshav for visiting on our blog!!! Yes Never ever left .. ❤️😊🎀
DeleteAgree, this one is also increase day by day, as people wants to live their lives freely after marriage. But on the other hand they forget about their grand parents. Nice one Riya ♥️
ReplyDeleteThanks a bunch❤️!! You are completely right people are now, stay busy to set their lifestyle and they haven't time for their parents ...😒
Delete💯 true. As we all have old aged group people in our lives whether they are grandparents, or parents or in surroundings. I just always noticed that they advices us to do kind work and never hurt anyone.
ReplyDeleteThey have a great experience of life. Even I missed my dadaji😔 a lot.
So guys please unki "seva" kro like they did when you are just a kid. Protect them don't leave them alone✌️
Few lines-
जब हम बूढ़े होंगे, हाथ- पैर👐🦶 जुड़े होंगे,
दवाइयों के पुड्ढेे होंगे पैसे बर्बाद करेंगे,
जवानी याद krenge-2........
I'm really glad to see your heart touching words, Thanks a lot for reading..
DeleteYes our parents or grandparents always show the right path to us, We should respect them and never let them go:-):-)
Old home is really very embarrassing 😥😥thing ever.
ReplyDeletePlz stop it and give respect to older. Keep it up riya nice topic
Thanks a lot🎀
DeleteKeep visiting dear..
Spread love and respect for Elders!!!
This blog makes me so emotional
ReplyDeleteI dont know what should I write. but dont left you parents. God is not be present everytime thats why god made parents & yes thank you for covering this topic.
Thanks to you for visiting here and spent your precious time to read this..
DeleteYes the another form of God is only our Parents, we should respect them❤️🎗️🤗
Very well said
ReplyDeleteThank you so much sir!! 😊
DeleteVery well said..🙏🏻🙏🏻I just can't understand what is the need of this type of homes in the society...if we need them in our childhood then why we can't give some time nd love to them in their old age.They just need our support and care..I completely supports u in this..😘
ReplyDeleteThanks a ton Paridhi❤️!!
DeleteYou are absolutely right
If they can take care of us then why we aren't? In their old age.. Afterall one day we'll also become the same.. Thanks for coming🙏😊😘
yes,we should respect our parents but sometimes you have to keep them in old age home because of situation.And there is a need to develop good old age home in our country.
ReplyDeleteYes, you can do that but only if your parents want to go there for any reason, and you should connect with them always, when they need you should always go to meet them..
DeleteWhen they want to come back to home u should always go and bring them..
And, Yes the development also a big thing.... Thanks!!
Good article
ReplyDeleteThanks!!
DeleteNice blog riya
ReplyDeleteThank you!!
DeleteGood job
ReplyDeleteThanks!! Keep visiting..
DeleteGood article
ReplyDeleteThanks!!
DeleteThanks and keep coming!!
ReplyDeleteThis Article really touched my soul..
ReplyDeleteWhatever you wrote is really really appreciable and conveyable for this youth❤. I was like lost in reading and got emotional ❤❤
Very nicely written😊
Thank you for this😊😊
Riya thanks for your 💓 touching story it's really a big problem of modern culture thanks for raising this issue it will do some good if one someone inspired by your story it will be a big change
ReplyDelete- As the owner of a renowned Assisted Living Residence in Gurgaon, I can say that there are two important reasons. Firstly, aged parents themselves often choose to shift to such old age homes in search of companionship, freedom from household chores, responsibilities of children, pursuing a hobby and more. In such cases, assisted living homes are their first choice. Secondly, often terminal illness in aged parents compel their children to send them to old age homes, because these homes have in-house team of doctors, nurses, caregivers and emergency-handlers to take care of senior citizens which children are unable to provide. At assisted living homes, senior citizens get better care and medical assistance than home, which is especially necessary for those with dementia, geriatric problems or post-operative patients. That way, their children remain stress-free too.
ReplyDeleteAurum, senior and assisted living homes in Gurgaon, Delhi NCR is a leading old age home in India. Its 36,000 sq ft living area is designed as a cozy living space that inspires home-like feelings. At Aurum, a senior’s physical and mental health is prioritized, and that seniors live a happy, healthy and dignified life is looked after
To view more visit:
https://www.aurumliving.com/