We all deal with "CRITICAL" people and have to battle "CRITICISM"

CRITICISM, Wondering how to overcome fear about being criticized by others? Today we'll talk about, how to deal with CRITICIZERS.

Criticism is something we can avoid easily by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing

Toxic people giving you criticism or negative feedback? Dealing with criticism can be painful. How do you deal with toxic or negative people? It's something we all deal with at some point.

We're all judged and criticized, right now. It's a normal part of being human to judge and be judged by others. You can overcome the fear of being criticized by realizing it's something we all do all the time.

This simple and very effective technique will help you handle negative feedback or criticism at work or in any situation.

There’s no shortage of advice about how to react to negative people. Whether the critic is a boss or a co-worker, the same familiar guidance is consistently presented: Listen carefully, don’t get defensive, ask for time.

But what to do if the feedback gets toxic, aggressive, intimidating or confrontational?

There is only one way to avoid CRITICISM is "DO NOTHING, SAY NOTHING, BE NOTHING".

Below I've mentioned some other points to overcome criticism.......

Believe in yourself

Do what you feel in your heart to be right for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do and damned if you don't.

Focus on positive vibes only

Focus on the positive. Don't dwell on negative thoughts. Do not complain or blame. Don't take criticism personally.

Just Ignore

Remember they criticize first to help boost their own self esteem. So you just need to ignore them and focus on your goals only.

Don't let anyone judge you

Most criticism is irrelevant. Overcome the fear of being judged by realizing most criticism is not constructive, it's really just that person's opinion.

Stay away from negativity

At some point in your life you will be criticised, perhaps in a professional way. Sometimes it will be difficult to accept but that all depends on your reaction. You can either use criticism in a positive way to improve, or in a negative way...

Patience attracts happiness

Patience and trust are the way to deal with allegations. The belief that truth will always prevail and the situation will improve. Whatever work you do, there will be someone who will make your mistake. Keep doing your work without losing enthusiasm. An enlightened person will continue to do good deeds according to his nature. His attitude will not be influenced by praise or criticism of anyone.

Don't criticise others just for the sake to heal your own insecurities.

Thanks for spending your expensive time.

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Vikas SinglaJuly 14, 2020 at 10:21 AM
Great 👍👍 I agreed.
Kuch to log khenge logo Ka Kam hai khena.....
You have covered the well terms and good choice of words 👍😊😊
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Monia AnguralJuly 14, 2020 at 10:51 AM
Great di 👌👌
Keep it up👌👌
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UnknownJuly 14, 2020 at 11:49 AM
Ahaa!!!🤩 fantastic👌
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Chetan SinghJuly 14, 2020 at 6:25 PM
Great thinking ... very good
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