We often compare ourselves with each others. It's human tendency. With their life, their social life, friends, family, etc. It will only bring you unhappy.
Instead of being jealous, or comparing yourself to someone else's life and success here what you need to do:
We can use those negative emotions, to transform them into positive ones.
Comparison takes your happiness away and leave you with dissatisfaction, low self-esteem and whatnot.
Do you wish to live someone else's life? Do you think someone else's life better than you? The reality is everyone has struggles, everyone has challenges.
When you study other's pain and have real conversation with people, you'll realize we're all so much closer than you think.
Just don't compare yourself with others, when we compare ourselves with others that's where insecurities plays an important role, like you always fear he/she is doing well and good in life and you are nothing but a loser.
And this is where you began to lose all credibility to do certain things, it changes your attitude and make you think negative.
You often feel like you are just an another simple poor guy who can't accomplish anything in life. And this is where you are wrong. Just do your own stuff with positive attitude.
To be honest there's nothing wrong in being different than others. All you gotta do is just put your effort and overcome all your insecurities and believe in yourself that you are the greatest and there is no one like you in the whole world.
When you stop comparing yourself to others, you can accomplish great things.
Sometimes people get jealous when they see others succeeding. However, we need to remember that someone's else success doesn't take away our success. There're plenty of opportunities for everyone to succeed in this world.
Getting envious about someone's success creates negative thoughts in mind. However, when we truly appreciate someone's success and feel happy about it, it will attract divine grace, which will help us to become successful in life.
So next time someone you know achieves success, closely watch how you react. Do you really feel happy about it? If not bring this knowledge to your mind that being joyful to other's success bring so much positivity and attracts divine grace, this way you'll get inspired by someone else's success and not feel jealousy and comparison.
Comparison is a killer of your dreams, goals, and also you completely lost control from yourself, you just thinking and keep thinking and that's also cost you lost of opportunities and time.
Just because someone has something you like and you don't have then you start comparing and you just lost much more valuable things than the other one for you hurting yourself. And that's not fare, isn't it?
We mostly compare our job, skin color, job title, income, relationship status, house, following and power etc. All of them show external success which isn't really matters in the long term, but internal success is always matters because at the end the people who stay with us the real people who love us from bottoms of their heart comes from our internal success.
SO just "Focus on yourself" and stop comparing yourself with others
Don't compare yourself with others in this world, if you do, you're just insulting yourself
This one indeed much needed 😍😍😍
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DeleteYaa absolutely we do not make comparisons.... every person have unique qualities..
ReplyDeleteYes!! Thanks a lot😊
DeleteYess di it's much needed
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